Creating positive energy in your life
Posted by Intuition Girl
I had a failed family business in 2007, and lost my relationship (I am gay). He told me it was him and not me.
With all this in my life, it was more than I wanted to deal with, so I came very close to ending my life. Looking for some bright star, and having no faith in God, I decided to go see a card reader.
She was dead on with everything about my life, but told me that my partner left because I had a negative energy around me.
She told me he was still very much in love with me and wanted to be with me and that he was coming back, and we would be together for life.
Also, money issues have been very hard, and the reader told me that I would not have anymore money issues, that I had a very big check coming in from some where, but the negative energy was stopping it.
I since have turned to God and asked him to save me and help with my Life, I have been giving my life to God and God has done some great things in my life.
The reader called me, and told me I need to stay strong and positive, and I do.
I have been giving her a large sum of money that I don’t have, but she asks me if I trust her and I do.
Can you tell me if what I have told you is true or not and should I stay with her and trust her? Thank you for your time.
Kiamens
Dear Kiamens:
My first suggestion to you is—please immediately—stop paying this woman. Anyone who says you have negative energy around you and does not teach you or give you the tools to help you may not be honorable. Negative energy could be your sadness from the relationship and fear; it can be about so many things including experiences from childhood. I understand that you are paying her, however, what is she doing to help you release the negative thoughts and beliefs and sadness in your life? I know there are people who do a pray ritual with you for forty days and you can pay them a fee but they also have you do the same ritual for yourself and at the same time teach you various steps.
My question to you is how is she helping you change and are you seeing a difference with her for your life? My message is strong—only you can decide the value received.
There are numerous people who come to me after spending thousands of dollars on other sources because someone said they were “doomed and cursed.”
I would like you to believe that each and everyone of us has the power to turn any situation around. You can work with God yourself and pray for a resolution. I encourage you to be clear on the real situations that you do want in your life. As far as your partner is concerned, please know as you heal yourself and as your heart becomes more open to trusting and receiving unconditional love, you will open the door for the right person to be with you because their soul will be ready and in alignment with your energy patterns.
Why specific situations may not have always gone in your favor is because the root in your core beliefs is not in alignment with the end result of what you want. If I offer my Manifestation Method Program in the fall this course will give you very specific and detailed tools in HOW you can create in your life on a daily basis the desires of your heart. Many blessings to you.
Many Blessings.
Spiritual Well-Being
Posted by Intuition Girl
Hello Ms. Whelan,
My name is Jameelah Scott. I was on the teleconference the other night and I am sure that your program will help me. I am a full time student with 2 children; a boy and a girl. I have known since I was a very little girl that I have a major purpose in life, but I have yet to see what it is. I feel like I have been going in circles and circles, being frustrated with where I am because I feel like there is so much more for me. I have read books such as the teachings of Jerry and Esther which also talk about manifesting your life. It was hard for me to digest at first because I grew up in a Christian background and I thought that if opened up to this teaching I would be in some way offending God. Anyway, I have made peace with that; however, I still haven’t seen a change. I am always approached by people saying that I have a gift but I do not see it. I am writing to see if you have any suggestions, I am not sure if I am doing the right thing by asking for help, but I am at the point where I will try just about anything. I do not know if you can feel it through this email, but I am soooo hungry and open to know how to hear and listen to my intuition, and I thank you in advance for your help.
Jameelah Scott
Dear Jameelah:
You are experiencing the same situation as many are or have been before you. A statement that I say often to people is: “ I wish you could see what I see.” Meaning you are a gift and I see the beautiful gifts that are in you and waiting to be revealed. In order for you to hear and know your own intuition you must spend time with the gift, that is “YOU.” When you consciously become aware of your intuition and your innate gifts, you will be able to utilize them all the time.
For starters, you are doing the right thing for asking for help. The key is to take the information you receive and apply it to your everyday living. The reason why you have not seen a change is because there might still be some guilt and war inside of you. God lives in all of us and he experiences himself/herself through all of us all the time. In order for you to have clarity with yourself, you must sit down and spend some quiet time with you and begin asking yourself on a daily basis what is it that I want to experience? If you want to experience peace on a daily basis then what are some very specific things you can do on a daily basis to begin experiencing inner peace? What are you thinking about all day long? Where do you place your focus? Remember in life the dance you do with your God is one of giving and receiving. In order for you to receive your gifts you must be the gift inside of you and be prepared to give it your all—in other words, to do your part. Everything stems from inside of you and the results are experienced on the outside as well as on the inside.
The greatest understanding and clarity you need to consider so that you can gain inner wisdom and consciousness is to pay attention to some very important desires, wishes or dreams that you want to experience; such as, “ What do you want to be doing everyday to earn a good living?” Then the next step is to begin moving in that direction so you can experience it. If you make up an excuse then you are only going to receive more excuses. In order to know and to listen to your intuition you must begin to be comfortable in your skin with silence as your partner and be open to listen to the answers. Your intuition is not a logical understanding machine, it is an inner knowing, a quiet whisper inside of you.
I suggest that if you are experiencing any fear or doubt in your body, you must release that emotion and learn to speak to its messages. This is only the beginning of the process. Please know I have a powerful product called “How to Tap Into Your Intuitive Powers” this is where I share what I have done on a daily basis to be so open and intuitive. You, too, can cultivate your intuitive powers—yes it takes work, yes you can accomplish it and yes it belongs to you.
If you want to learn “HOW”, you may click here for more information.
Many Blessings to you.
Finding love online…
Posted by Intuition Girl
Hey Joan Marie,
My name is Carla, and I was wondering if you’d be able answer a few questions. I’ve been talking to this guy on the computer off and on for about 5 years and recently we began to talk again and now it seems more serious then ever. What I want to know is if he will show up to meet me in May? He claims to have feelings towards me and wants to be with me but I have to make sure he is telling the truth or if he is just leading me on
Thank you, Carla Cisneros
Dear Carla:
My question to you is do you want to be in a healthy relationship with a partner who is ready for a commitment? If this is the case then you need to be honest with yourself and him and ask him what it is he wants from you. Be honest with yourself as to the type of communication you both have had together in the past 5 years. Did you share openly your wishes in life?
Did you both take the time to get to know each other or did you just fill a void for each other at that moment? Some people who communicate on the internet have commitment issues and intimacy issues. Now I said some people! Let’s be real, if you both want to get to know each other you need to meet in person, and get to know each other face to face—only then can you know if there is something more between you. The question you asked me about him, I would like to turn it around and ask you—and please be honest. Think about it…. every person who comes into our life is a mirror of what is going on inside of us.
Take the time to think about what it is that is really going on within you. The truth is, you both will need to open up to each other in an honest way and allow the process to mature and grow with time.
Your heart will know the truth if you want to know it.
Many Blessings,
What’s my passion?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Hi Joan Marie,
I am trying to get clear on what’s my passion, please help me.
Thank you, Temberly Williams
Dear Temberly
Great question and as I have said before one I receive on a regular basis from many of you. Defining what your life’s purpose comes down to several things and is impossible to answer in this short message. But for starters, it is valuable to say, that to discover one’s purpose requires one important ingredients, that is, to discover something that brings you joy. Now do not just say well if I had money I would be happy or if I was married I would be happy. That is not true. Whatever emotional state you are in right now is the exact same emotional state you will be in when you have money and deeper relationships. Money does not resolve your real issues and sometimes it even exasperates them.
You understand your purpose in life when you recreate clarity of what it is you want to experience on a daily basis. You must decide what you want to create. You need to take the direct root to get there and you need to be willing to work towards what brings you joy.
Your purpose is your passion, a state of mind, creativity, taking risks and playing hard. So, I ask you, “What do you want to do with your time and are you willing work hard to get there?” Everyone who is successful and experiences greatness has worked and earned it. Are you ready and willing to enjoy the experience?
Many Blessings to you,
How do couples cope with the loss of a family member?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Dear Ms. Whelan:
I listen to you every Monday morning on Waking Up with Whoopi and I am amazed by your gift and your insights. The reason I am writing to you is that the last few months have been very hard on me and my husband. My father-in-law passed away from terminal stomach cancer and when my husband returned to work after bereavement he was fired. That was 3 months ago and I am wondering what is in store for us. We have been under an extreme about of stress which has been difficult on our relationship.
I guess I would like to know what will happen to him job wise and if things will improve with our relationship. Thank you for all of the help that you give people.
Sincerely,
Karen
Joan Marie’s Answer
Dear Karen:
First I want to say that I do not believe that because your father-in-law passed that you and your husbands world has to come crashing down. I always say having open honest communication with your partner is very important and vital. Both of you need to sit down together and get clear on what you both wish to experience and see if you can establish a greater bond between the two of you. We all have trials and tribulations in life and they are not meant to cause a separation. This is time to re-evaluate your commitment to each other, to yourself and to the life you intended to create.
I believe your husband can get proper employment and your relationship can be great but you both need to be on the same page with what it is you want. I feel like your husband wants to use this time as an excuse for his life’s downward spiral when he does not have to.
You must realize that you need to create a solid foundation between the two of you. I realize you both have a great deal going on. Now is the time to go out for the day, forget about everything and do something fun. This experience does not even have to cost you anything. This will also help the both of you to relax and begin to create some positive change in your life.
Many Blessings,
How do I balance my crazy social life?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Hi Joan Marie,
I hope you can help me. I am in a crazy time of my life I like my job but it is boring to me and I think I see myself doing something else, I am just unsure as to what it might be. I was hoping you could give me a little insight as to what I might want to do?
I am trying to improve my social life because I do not have one. I have family but I am not really close to anyone who I can call whenever I need to talk so I have a lot of bottled up emotions and I don’t have any friends to keep me busy. I am hoping to find at least one friend to be able to call and to hang out with. What do you see for my social life?
I also have lets say a friend, lets say he fills my loneliness void, he turns on and off like a light switch one minute he makes me feel good like I have someone and the next he pushes me away. Sometimes I feel like I am the yoyo. and I think it is taking a toll on me emotionally. I get upset and start to cry thinking here we go again–I am alone again with no one. I think if I know that the void will be filled with either activities, friends or a new man that I would not get so emotional and I would take steps to get there instead of getting upset and shutting down.
Hope you can help,
Dawn D
Dear Dawn:
You are where so many have been. How many reading this right now are saying, “I know how she feels. First and foremost you must be in truth with how you are feeling.
I suggest that you let go of this relationship for now. This person is not serving you, only helping you stay where you are and you are allowing yourself to stay in an unhealthy emotional state by being in this relationship. Please know I am making a suggestion and you must be responsible for your final decision.
What I say to you as I have said to so many is: Are you done? Are you finished with being in this place? Being a part of circumstances that you truly do not want? It is as if you are addicted to the “I don’t want club” so that is all you are getting.
I think what people need to understand is that there is no pill that can solve this problem. The only solution is “YOU”.
Therefore, what you need to do is look at this time that you have alone not as a negative but as a gift so you can grow to better understand you, that is all of you. Begin to nurture you and start listening to the truth of what it is you really want to have come into your life.
You appear ready for change so several steps you can do on a consistent basis is to focus on what brings you joy. I do not want to hear:”I do not know.” What is one thing that brings you joy? it maybe remembering a special time or an activity that you love to do. If you begin to focus on what brings you joy, and spend at least five minutes a day focusing on joy, your body will actually begin to crave and focus on what brings you joy.
As a result, you will automatically bring in more joy. Another suggestion to help you get better acquainted with yourself is to find a hobby or take a class. In other words, begin to discover a joy-filled experiences, an outlet that will help you feel contentment and begin creating some joy-filled activity into your life on a consistent basis. You mentioned you have a lot of emotions bottled up inside. Write them out in your journal. It is time for you to understand why you have needed them. Write out in detail what you do want in your life on a daily basis, give great detail to what it is you think you want.
Then write out how this feels. You need to gain control over your life and your circumstances one step at a time and it begins with you not through a friend or lover. I hope that helps?
Many Blessings to you,
How do I know when to call it quits?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Dear Joan,
It has been a couple years since I started my business, I borrowed what would have been my inheritance from my father. I’ve worked relentlessly every day for the past 2 years, I can’t remember the last vacation or even day off.
I’ve always wanted my father to be proud of me so I know I did this business for myself as well as for him. I do enjoy every day but it has been quite a struggle.
I thought by now I would perhaps be returning the favor to my father ten fold, but that is not the case, I am in the real estate business and my business is going down the tubes due to the market decline.
My question to you is, how do I know when to call it quits, I’m not a quitter but I don’t want to drag my father down any further. He’s been so supportive and I’ve borrowed more then my rightful share.
Should I close the business and get a job? Should I attempt to get a small business loan and give it more time? I appreciate any insight you may have.
Blessings & Namaste,D
Joan Marie’s Answer
My feeling is you had this idea and inspiration for a reason. I feel like the business that you are in is a great opportunity; however, your foundation is weak and you have many loopholes that are preventing you from creating the flow of productivity. I do not feel like the answer is to keep spending money to make something work. I feel; however, that you need to gain a better insight and knowledge and even possibly find a mentor to give you support and guidance. All real estate businesses are not collapsing. There are always opportunities to be had in difficult times. It would be valuable for you to find out what you need to do right in order to make your business prosper.
The root of all situations in life is our emotions. The Universe is a feeling Universe and you need to see how you are feeling every single day in order to create. Possibilities do exist everywhere but your eyes are not on them.
Make this about you, not your father. Do not feel bad he has given you money; he did so because he wanted to. The problem is in your emotions. Again, I suggest that you work on your foundation, your core so that you are better equipped to create the change and momentum that you are craving. There are plenty of people thriving in this economy today, why aren’t you? In my lifestyle makeover programs, I have helped numerous people not only create their blueprint to bring in money but also to discover their purpose.
The answer is not necessarily to go into more debt, the answer is can you create a solution in the next 30 to 60 days and what is it? Work on a blueprint for yourself. Learn from this and grow, you have many great lessons and the fact that you have held on for so long means you are a winner and a success. Prepare to be open for change and all the possibilities that await you.
Many Blessings,
What is your take on astrology?
Posted by Intuition Girl
Dear Joan Marie,
I was wondering what your take was on astrology? Recently, I had a complete astrology report done on my sons father and it told me he was going to drop down on the side walk and die. I know they are not supposed to reveal this kind of information but all the reports I have had done were so true (mainly as far as personality goes) and it has ruled my ability to move forward in life.
I am sick with worry as I had lost my husband in the same way . My Husband’s death was in my birth report ! I believe more in the validity of what you do than that of astrology.
Thank you for your time. Your response is greatly appreciated!
Sincerely
Jennifer
Joan Marie’s Answer
This is a fascinating question. I literally just said to a client the other day to please be cautious when you are receiving information from another. I suggest you examine the information and try it on like it is a pair of hand me down pants. If they feel right and fit keep them, if they do not throw them away.
The information you received for your son’s father can become a reality because now the thought and statement has been sent out into the ethers. It has become a spoken word. I believe that if someone is going to tell you this kind of information, it would also be wise that they share with you details of how to prevent this from happening. Remember we all have free will and we actually have the power and ability to change our fate. Therefore, it is possible that this prediction can be reversed.
The truth is, if you are comfortable speaking to this man and sharing with him what was told to you, he might be interested in taking right action. This information just might be the catalyst that will enable him to empower himself to change his ways and make life altering decisions. As individuals we have the power every second of every day to do something different. If you are going to pray for anything at this time pray for the strength and courage for yourself, your son and this man. Change is inevitable so pray that you can all grow from the changes that are occurring to you.
When we become a leader in life over our emotions we are the winners. We are all going to die and we all will burry many loved ones— this is a fact. What you decide to do with your time while you are here and the relationships you wish to create is up to you. If you are going to stress and worry instead of playing, living, talking, sharing and doing—you just might lose out on the opportunities that await you. Remember the choice is yours!
I see a great deal of energy entanglement with your husband, you and your sons father…. break the cord of the past and create a new story.
Many Blessings to you,
